1. Always keep your own perspective on
the things.
2. the first impression may be wrong sometimes,
so why don't get to know
the person/situation
some better ?!
3. Talk a lot, always keep starting little
chats with some nice people in your
surrounding.
4. If anyone doesn't agree with your opinion,
make out a date and set a long
and clearing conversation,
so you know his/her point of view and you can explain
why you feel different.
5. Never clear up differences, argues
with a FIGHT. Words and arguments are
better than physical
treats.
6. Sometimes it's hard to follow your
heart or mind - the best is you mind those:
* how long do you know
the person ?
The more better and
longer you know any person, you can chose out if it's right
to start doing anything
unexpected or better wait.
* What did you experience
with that person ?
It's better you spent
some real good and bad times with him/her..so you can
see she/her stands
with you.
* What did your best friends
tell you about that person?
If they tell
only bad things..it might not be true at all..check him/her better out.
If they tell
only good things about him, you can try to find out some little bad habits
:o)
* IF you really really can't
control your heart-beating so fast when he/she comes your
way, just surprise
him/her..to be open and honest is appealing.
Tell him/her..you
just can't decide how to go on, tell that you're insecure.
May be he/she
is feeling the same.
7. If any person spreads silly rumors
about you, stop that person on the next sight.
And ask her/him
what it's all about..if she/he tells all those silly stuff to others,
she/he can also tell
it to you personally !!! May be you even did not know..
8. Do never say YES to each theme, or
agree to anything..you seem to be boring
then, or it shows your insecure..just
say what's on your mind, as long it is not
hurting anyone too bad. Then
you better form it into nicer words.
9. Do never say NO or have always another
point of view..sometimes it's better
just to listen and check,
you'll get your opinion proved or delayed :o)
10. Always act as YOURSELF, don't act
Cool..just because a lot of others do.
11. Be a strong character person !!
last but not least: all these things may
help you..but there are always situations
in that you just don't know what to do.
The best thing is to ask your best mates how they would act. And chose
out the thing you think is the best to do. Or think about for yourself
some time. If there is nooo chance to see a good way to cope the situation,
make a list of all the choices, write
down the possible positive and negative results
of it. The one that impresses with the
most positive results...seems to be the right one.
Those are my best ways to keep it up !
If you know a good way, mail me :o)
I love to post all the good ways to keep
respect.
[ My english is rocky, so
don't wonder over some mistakes..you can help me correcting them on each
of my pages ! Thank you. ]